A financial planner recently shared that their family has a rule: no travel sports. The concern was understandable—they had watched families spend thousands on hotels, gas and tournaments while saving nothing for college. But I don’t believe “no travel sports” is a good financial rule. The better question is whether your family can afford the expense without going into debt or compromising priorities such as retirement and college savings.
Not every worthwhile investment in your child needs to produce a financial return. Travel sports can create friendships, teach resilience and provide meaningful time between parents and children. Tournament trips can even become family vacations and opportunities to spend time with relatives. Those benefits may never appear in a 529 balance, but that doesn’t mean they have no value.
Travel sports become a financial mistake when families spend money they don’t have, sacrifice their future or count on a scholarship that may never arrive. But when the expense fits within a thoughtful financial plan and the child genuinely loves the sport, it can be a responsible decision. The purpose of money isn’t simply to make more money—it’s to prepare for the future while building a meaningful life along the way.